Chloe Love to aLL!
"Yo ImPeRfEckT pEEps!"
07.07.12.
I was thinking more today why I used to try to be perfect, and what I landed on is that I thought that if I did everything perfectly, people would approve of me, or like me (have you every been around someone who acts like they are perfect? . . . I actually find people who act perfect quite annoying and humorous...and I used to be THAT girl... yikes.
So being perfect was a way for me to feel in control. Perfection comes in many disguises, like, for example:
- being the perfect student
- being the perfect son/daughter
- being the perfect athlete/singer/actress/_______fill in blank (no fouls, strikes, warnings,wrong notes or lines etc.)
- having a perfect body (eating disorder warning)
- looking perfect
- kissing butt to people so they like you
- making others dependent on you . . .
Being perfect is SOSOSOSOSOS stressful . . . and WE DO IT TO OURSELVES. Nobody else does it TO us. Anyway, so that leaves us with being (im)PerFeCKT! Hmn...
It's actually kind of a relief . . . takes the pressure off, and then we can just breathe, be hu(wo)man, and love ourselves even MORE. I personally love being a dork and I want to remind you that (im)PerfeCkT is the new PerfeCKt!
BTW: Who else can be perfekctly you? NO-BODY!
You r the grace of GO(O)D-NESS!
;)dana
BTW: Who else can be perfekctly you? NO-BODY!
You r the grace of GO(O)D-NESS!
;)dana
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